Last weekend, we have been banned from UKHippy for reasons that we believe to be unjust. As the moderators have taken the opportunity to post their side of the story on the UKHippy forums, we would like to take this opportunity to post our side of the story here.

UKHippy is a free online community with a lot of great members talking freely about virtually all aspects of life. Indeed, open discussion is encouraged in a statement that was on the front page of UKHippy: “people can join in and talk openly and explicitly about absolutely any subject they desire.” (This weekend, the statement was replaced with: “At UK HIPPY, we invite discussion on almost every subject under the sun.”)

Unfortunately, having a completely free and unrestricted discussion on the Internet is an illusion. To stop trolls, flamewars, racism and similar evils, a forum needs to be moderated. As the name suggests, the moderator’s task is to temper excessive and extreme behaviour and thus allow a pleasant and productive debate. To enable moderators to do this, they are given almost God-like powers on a forum: the powers to lock, ban and censor.

Moderators, however, are not Gods, they are humans. And being humans, moderators are not always right. They might at times make partial decisions. They might lock threads that others feel shouldn’t have been locked, they might remove messages that others feel shouldn’t have been removed and they might ban users that others feel shouldn’t have been banned. Of course, all that can be asked from a moderator is to do the best he or she can, and all that can be offered to a moderator is appreciation and respect. Appreciation for the time and effort the moderator invests, and respect for the fact that the moderator’s decision is final.

Respect, in our view, does not equal unchallenged acceptance. A moderator’s decision may be final, but that doesn’t mean it cannot be discussed or even questioned. While it’s the moderator’s task to temper extreme and excessive behaviour, it is up to each and every member of the community to maintain a nice and open atmosphere. Therefore, it is of vital importance that each and every member has the opportunity to discuss and debate anything that influences the atmosphere of the forum, and that includes the moderator’s decisions. In the words of John Stuart Mill: “However unwillingly a person who has a strong opinion may admit the possibility that his opinion may be false, he ought to be moved by the consideration that however true it may be, if it is not fully, frequently, and fearlessly discussed, it will be held as a dead dogma, not a living truth.”

Sadly, we have been banned for just that. We have been banned for discussing, in a civil manner, the moderator’s actions. And we have been banned for suggesting an open discussion about moderation policy. Sadly, it seems that not “absolutely any subject” may be discussed on UKHippy.

The moderators of UKHippy have argued that they do not have time to discuss or explain their actions. This argument does not apply, since we do not ask of them to invest any more time in these discussions than they would in any other discussion. Although we do personally feel a moderator’s job goes beyond locking threads and banning members, and includes offering a motivation for their actions when asked, we find ourselves unable to make this point as this very debate has been locked, censored and banned from UKhippy.

Prior to our banishment, one of us, a senior moderator was demoted shortly after disagreeing with one of the admins of UKHippy on the tone with which forum members should be approached. The admin used the phrase “get the fucking message” when addressing a member. The demotion was without prior warning and without a given explanation.

Note that we have, up to this point, not challenged our bans. We have not contacted the UKHippy admins by email or by Private Message and have in fact been discouraged to do so. Also, no warning was given by the moderators or the admins prior to our ban to inform us our conduct was considered to be out of line, and, for two of us, no reason for the bans were given at the time.

Since being banned, we have been represented on the UKHippy forum as ‘twats’. The admins have seen fit threatening to close the entire forum down, and blaming us for driving them to it. So, we have been made into scapegoats before the entire community, who are, for the larger part, entirely left in the dark about the exact circumstances and people involved.

Please feel free to discuss this statement in the comments. Please keep this discussion civil.

Regards,

Chalck, Velvet and Anusha

13 Responses to “Banned from UKHippy, our side of the story.”

  1. matthew said

    Well i agree with:

    The moderators of UKHippy have argued that they do not have time to discuss or explain their actions. This argument does not apply, since we do not ask of them to invest any more time in these discussions than they would in any other discussion. Although we do personally feel a moderator’s job goes beyond locking threads and banning members, and includes offering a motivation for their actions when asked, we find ourselves unable to make this point as this very debate has been locked, censored and banned from UKhippy.

    no warning was given by the moderators or the admins prior to our ban to inform us our conduct was considered to be out of line, and, for two of us, no reason for the bans were given at the time.

    I’ve never said anything nasty in a PM, when i have been banned. I think the point that fails to get across is, that i just want a explanation. That would do me fine. It generally is just one way traffic.

    I maybe sarcastic , i maybe not come at things with the right tone. Then this is what i need to know. i need to see where i have done these things. ‘Time’ is always the ‘excuse’, i don’t need a immediate response, i just need one. Maybe instead of me ‘bitching’ for a hour, a simple response at some point, wich would take a very short time, would clear the air. I’m pissed off when i am in the dark about something.

    If i was spamming constantly PMing or abuseing people, fair enough. I do not, i just think i have been very civil, but not communicated with enough.

    PM:

    ”just a quick note matt, i deleted your post becausee…
    e.g of the point of the post that caused ‘offence’

    The person should then be able to PM back, with ONE post. If they fail to make there point, tough.

    Atleast a reply to that should be made.

    I know for a fact, because i have been not communicated with, over the last few incidents, it has made me a little upset, and to be honest i don’t want to look over my shoulder and walk on eggshells, unsure if something i have said is ‘offensive’. IF i’m not consulted at some time about it.

  2. matthew said

    P.S.. Merry xmas to the majority of people on the UKHippy forum.

  3. velvet said

    By now this blog has been published on the forum.

    Firstly it was posted by another member but that thread got instantly deleted. Atomik then published the link himself and commented on it. He also apperantly felt it was necessary to bring up things mentioned in personal communications between us on MSN. I’m not letting myself be drawn into this public naming and shaming though, no matter how much this has gutted me.

    As for the offer to be granted back on UKhippy? No thank you. I love a lot of people from that community.. and they’ve in turn managed to reach me by other means than the forum to offer their perspective, support and/or curiousity about the current events. No matter how nice it is to have a great platform to communicate with your friends, it’s not the only way to stay in touch with them.

    After my tempban (that I in no way tried to get around of, as has been suggested on the forum otherwise) I messaged a few people my email address in case I got another ban without prior warning. After that I found my PM inbox limited to 50 and I wasn’t able to initiate any PM’s anymore, only reply to ones received.

    I don’t feel comfortable at a place where I get silenced for speaking up about things that seem genuinly unfair to me. One of the things I spoke up about, right before being demodded for example, was how Matthew was messaged on behalf of the staff to “get the fucking message”. Now sure, ‘it’s just the internet’.. but really, a little politeness goes a long way.. if it’s possible to find the time as an admin to message things like that to a member then surely they must find a bit of time to message a short reason given for a ban? My temp-ban ànd perm-ban reason both went without prior warning ànd with no ban-reason given. Now how come there was ‘no time’ to do that.. but there was time to call me and Anusha ‘twats’ and now to go in depth sharing personal opinions about me on the forum? Not questions I seek answers to.. just things that make me shake my head and walk away from it all.

    We’ve been made out for ungrateful and disruptive as well. I know the people who know me and Anusha know better than that. Two sides to each story. Simple as that. Not sure why that has been received with such hostility by the admins. I vaguely do remember me putting in a huge amount of time as a senior mod, now how would I now not be understanding my colleagues there? As Chazz so sweetly put it.. I still view (most of them) as my friends and in no way would I ask them to choose sides or anything like that. Kinda strange though really.. the complaints about not having enough time to even message a moderated member, after very easily demodding me right on the same evening I clashed about the use of language against Matthew. Apperantly they only want people to donate time who fully and silently agree with all that’s been done. Treat people like cattle and you can expect a stampede.

    Anyways.. Ukhippy started out great and I enjoyed most of my stay there and most of the people I encountered there. And to go along with Matthew: Merry Christmas to the majority of people on the Ukhippy forum!

  4. matthew said

    I think my mind is pretty made up now, i’m not going to try and be communicative with the ‘head honchos’ at UKhippy, they [well those that are taking the lead] seem to just give out empty platitudes, and no suggestions of a positive, way forward to active/civil members of the forum, who just happen to be slighty combatative.
    ‘Our way or the highway’ it seems. I was going to try and see how a construtive chat with those that i had issues with, would go. I think i will get no where. i’m notgoing to bother. ‘Cut and run’.. is the best option, i will not get trapped in talking to a brick wall. I maybe being unfair, but past history suggests i will not get anywhere. I do like the majority of people on UKhippy, but i think it is time for me to move on.

    See certain people in other places and in other circumstances, real soon.

    have a nice day , ye hear.

    and a happy new year.

  5. matthew said

    Well i did attempt to post a post on the forums. It went down like a lead balloon. i attempted to reflect the ‘other side’ without trying to continue a ‘debate. It seem it was not well recieved.. oh well. THE END as far as the UK hippy forum is concerned.

  6. Anusha said

    Oh matthew… not you as well? this is all madness. I always thought forums banned people for being abusive, i never realised it could happen for wanting open debate. I think the underlying upset here is that some of us are banned without fully realising why, and with no warning. and we are told that if we ask about it we will be on permanent bans.

    well..here we are on permanent bans without having said a bad word to anyone?

    A member who was obviously upset at a lifetime ban with no reason given. sent Atomik an angry email… the opportunity to use that against all of us was not missed by Admin. we were called twats and accused of ignoring warnings.. it was inferred that we had caused a lot of trouble behind the scenes arguing decisions and being abusive and that we had inflated egos…the thread incited the most venemous responses because members were led to believe all of these things of us…these accusations are a lie and even possibly slanderous. i made just one post, recieved a temp ban i never argued or responded to it and accepted it with dignity, on unban day i made no posts and PM’d just 2 people to say hi. within a few hours i was on a perm ban?

    I want to say the biggest thankyou to all the members who have msged me with support and kind words.. if nothing else comes from this your friendship means so much..thankyou

    please tread carefully…being on the recieving end of so much abuse and foul language from admin is not pleasant but i’ll resist the temptation to stoop so low..and just take the opportunity here to tell you my side.

    I have a copy of the post that got me banned if anyone wants to read it and make their own judgement about it. not that it matters anymore.. i’ll miss all of you..but i wont miss the abuse i’ve suffered over the last few days or the deliberate attempt to mislead some very special and honest people.

    anusha

  7. Ucof said

    The people on HoP are lovely and friendly :)
    We have “super-excellent” mods as well.
    www-dot-homeofpoi-dot-co(m)

    It wouldnt be the first time I have heard things like this going on at UKHippy either :(

  8. Valura said

    what ucof said! come and play at HoP we will always welcome you guys, and the mods are fair and welcome open discussion about their actions, via PM.

    I have even seen decisions reversed when discussed with mods…

    Keep your heads up and remember to breathe and smile.

    *Hugs*
    Valura.

  9. velvet said

    oooh that is so incredibly nice of you, home-of-poi people! Hope you all had a great Christmas and indeed, if I join an existing forum again I’ll definately stop bye and say hi to you, heard lots of good about HoP :) )

    Thanks for the kinds words!

    Love,

    velvet

  10. HappyHippy said

    I have set up a very basic wee forum for banned hippies to communicate with each other and their friends still on the UKHippy forum without fear of censorship. If you send an email to me I will email a password to each of you. So far Exedous is the only other banned member I have managed to contact – I don’t have email addies for anyone. I only found this web page by Googling. My wee forum is very basic (I only started writing it this morning) but it works, and if it is well received I will add a lot more functionality to it over time. I hope to hear from you good folks soon. I’m just gutted this has happened.

    Peace, Love & Light

    HappyHippy

  11. Anusha said

    Thankyou ucof and valura for your offer…i’ll definately stop by to say hello :) and also HappyHippy…i did visit your forum and its so nice to say hi again to some friendly faces..thankyou :)

    anusha xxx

  12. velvet said

    Happyhippy.. you got banned as well? How come? Why? When? Hope you had a merry Christmas and best wishes for the new year!

    :) )

    love,

    velvet

  13. HappyHippy said

    Hi Velvet :o )

    No I am not banned yet, but expecting to be at any moment, as the powers that be at UKHippy are bound to get wind of what I am doing at my web site sooner or later and they won’t be best pleased I should think. However I would rather stick up for me mates than cowtow to tyranny any day and I am willing to pay the price if that’s how it goes. I have however had problems with the mods (or rather one mod in particular) there myself recently and I am probably only on borrowed time now. I have stated in a PM to a senior mod that I will not post there again except possibly one final post in the Jura Gathering thread, so I am basically jumping even if I am not pushed. If you click on my name at the top of this post it will take you to the Banned Hippy Forum on my site – there is a contact form there for you to email me (I don’t put my addy up cos of the spam bots) and I will email your password back to you. That goes for everyone else who is in the same boat too of course :o ) I have explained all the details of my own UKHassles in a posting in that forum, so you will be able to read all about it there. I would also urge you to check out the Tribal Living forum at http://www.tribal-living.co.uk/forums/ where you will be welcome and will see a lot of old friends (and meet a few new ones too). I can also say that there are a few folks with enough nouse at UKHippy to know what is going on and you are not without sympathisers there, but mostly they keep their heads down and won’t speak out for understandable reasons. Did you know Tiger and James have also been banned?

    Well have a happy Hogmanay everyone – a New Start for a New Year :o ) And do drop in at thee Banned Hippy Forum we’d love to hear from you there :o )

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